Expectations

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 24 May 2021 2:33PM


World seems difficult as life is, sometimes i feel this is the best moment ever but sometime i feel the worst days of my life i question why can't feel the same all the time because i am the same person i was yesterday so why i cannot make myself put in the same situation i was yesterday. So that means it's my mind and heart who controls me. Should i really look deeper to this life or should i go with the flow? If i go with the flow criticism may arise; i should think of future and take further steps but i won't be enjoying my present life. At the same time, we should live in present that's how we will know the real meaning of our existence. How I am supposed to live this life? So overall i see this life as a compromise; LIFE=COMPROMISE=HAPPINESS. I think I've convinced myself that after compromise only i can be happy. That's how i grew up and thats how i am living this life and now i am happy with what i have learned. 

Once a women is pregnant, from there she will start expecting from that baby and that's where they go wrong. See that's how feel, no one should expect; a baby is not even has a shape inside her womb and they have high expectation; the baby will become this that and all. I reckon they should choose their own path only thing parent's responsibility is to guide them in a right path. They shouldn't take their kids as their burden if they do then my question here is; why did even think to bring that kid on this earth? 

We blame to the society our surroundings fully for the way we are, somehow it is but not fully moreover it depends on us how we take things especially when we're adults.

You know what? I've been to heaps of job interviews, I don't understand that, when the interviewers are getting the straight forward answer yet they expect from me to give that answer in 360 ways. Not only interviewers, but most of the people expects this may be even me myself sometimes. May be its our mind who cannot understand the direct answers like in mathematic solution.

See this is what i was trying to explain from the above paragraph, when u have answers then you will question - BINGO!

Well, life can be viewed in different ways and from different perspective. So. there isn't a perfect definition of life. 

Now, love gives meaning to life? I agree with this. Cause without love life wouldn't exist; i'm not writing about "GF/BF" love or married couples or family love for each other. Here, i'm more focusing on self-love. The first thing all of human being love is themselves first. Thats the first love of anyone's life, only after that anyone can love others. This is the perception i have regarding love. But one thing in this world no one could find is "AN UNCONDITIONAL LOVE". 

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