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Follow Own-self

I’ve seen people arguing of being men & women and so called discrimination. Female wants to be on top and vice versa. In my perception, before being any gender first we’re a human being. We should know our responsibilities before giving another thought of being a particular “gender". Being a man I should do this and being a woman I should do that!  We shouldn’t be focusing on any sort of partiality that are going around us. If we want to change our surrounding, I reckon we should change out mindset of being a particular gender and rest shall be own choices.  Our mind is very hard to control as we easily get influenced or brainwashed by others' opinion. But that doesn’t mean our mind is not determined yet we can’t blame to other person for influencing. Mind and heart can never be stable yet isn’t impossible but it is indeed very tough thing to do! Sometimes we can't decide things on our own and that's the time we happen to get brainwashed and take wrong decisions - ...

"JOKES" as a Defensive Mechanism

It's been a kind of trend these days mentioning "LOL" in every conversation .  Those conversation that we end up saying "LOL" is actually what we really want to convey to that person but it's just we don't want make it a sense in other way round or don't want to make that person feel the other way round. In general, we really meant those "jokes a part" conversation but we convey it making it as a part of joke. The fact is that we don't want to be in bad books in anyone mind, that's why we convey those messages pertaining as a joke.  And honestly the word "LOL" has been a defensive mechanism to be in safe zone always. It has made our life much easier to avoid those convos that we really don't want to get involved in.

Random Thoughts

Travelling alone is the best healing we could ever get in life. Going to different places meeting new people, learning something new every moment about their culture, tradition and somewhat adapting it's an amazing feeling in life. It really refreshes us, leaving our past behind, stress that we have in our daily life, from each and everyone. Seriously, travelling alone will make us realise who we truely are and what exactly we want in life. We will know what is the importance of our existence. We will really know who purely are we..i mean the real "me" that we have been hiding consciously or unconsciously within us. I don't know if anybody has realised that we never show our true face to anybody else either it's intentionally or unintentionally. We  could only be the real "me" when we're just with ourselves.  As per my perception nobody could ever understand or see anybody else's the real "me".