"JOKES" as a Defensive Mechanism

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It's been a kind of trend these days mentioning "LOL" in every conversation . 

Those conversation that we end up saying "LOL" is actually what we really want to convey to that person but it's just we don't want make it a sense in other way round or don't want to make that person feel the other way round. In general, we really meant those "jokes a part" conversation but we convey it making it as a part of joke.

The fact is that we don't want to be in bad books in anyone mind, that's why we convey those messages pertaining as a joke. 

And honestly the word "LOL" has been a defensive mechanism to be in safe zone always. It has made our life much easier to avoid those convos that we really don't want to get involved in.


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