Never Got A Chance?

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It is way too easy for us to confront infront of others that we don't care of what other's had to say about us. Don't we really get affected by the people's opinion about us?

Certainly yes we do get affected, if we do think of others then it does impact to our daily life, we won't be able to move on in life and have growth at all which will push us towards darkness and dumbness. We shouldn't get stuck in the moment. Learn to choose to be and make ourself happy first. 

No highest hopes from others, let's not make our happiness dependent on others. Once we get dependent to set our happiness by others, there we go wrong, cause once we get dependent it is indeed very tough to get out of it and we always will be seeking our happiness in others. We get so dependent on others even a tiny savage uttered by other people will make us sad. Are we that weak? 

Find peace within in us, find happiness within us. It is true we do need people around us, with us who could be helpful or be there, to listen, to us give advice and stuffs like that, but do we really have to be dependent on them to seek our own happiness? Once we learn to be happy within ourselves there we will feel a different sort of feeling, another level of happiness and we will learn to love ourselves with no expectations and highest hopes. No affection by other's perception, no drama and no trauma in life again!

Just be true to yourself, none of the shit can affect you again, have that confidence within you, then no body can put you down again! All you gotta do is just wake up and slay the day, carry that confidence; then nobody can fool you or dump you aside. Wait for no one, cause nobody was there to wait for you when you're struggling to come up and trust me nobody will wait for you. It's just you at the end of the day. You gotta do what you gotta do. Don't just wait for the right moment cause you're the one who gonna make that moment right, don't wait for the right time cause you're the one who gonna make that time right for you. It's not always about your fate, it's always about the way you put your thoughts in mind. 

Don't wait for a chance to come up in your feet, create that chance for you and if that chance doesn't work out then move on towards next one. Always learn to move on, sticking onto the same and regretting of not getting that opportunity will always snatch another chance from your hand. 

So, never say we never got a CHANCE! If you're not ready to move on then that's your mistake of loosing another opportunity in life and end of the day all you get is regret!


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