EGO - can turn everything upside down!

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Let me first describe the meaning of EGO - a person's sense of self-esteem or self-importance.

As we being a normal creature of this universe raised in a normal society, it is very much obvious to have similar behaviour even if we want to portray ourself an exceptional one in-front of others but, we indeed are similar to one another. It is just a matter of controlling the emotions which only few person can do that.

Now lets come to the topic EGO, as i have mentioned in the first sentence the real meaning of ego is self-esteem or self-importance. It is surely a good thing to have self-esteem at some point or at some limits. But giving way too much importance to self is called self-centred, where you see no one around you but just yourself - your need, your values, your perception and everything that is just related to you. That's where ego will be on top of the hierarchy in one's life; where Ego becomes the top most priority in life and to maintain that ego people could do anything, can sacrifice anything in life just anything.

But my question is, does this level of ego gives a kind of satisfaction? If yes!, then for how long? I reckon for not very long time it's just a short span and then what? Search another way to satisfy that ego? That means whole of your life will be survived in searching for a reason or an excuse to satisfy that ego which doesn't even lasts for a day!? 

People might have so much of superiority complex of being the most beautiful, handsome, sexier than anyone, being a hot chick, being extra ordinary, multi-talented so on and on. Why to make others feel bad just because of the ego of being who we are! Why to make others feel uncomfortable just because you have so many source of talents which generated ego. 

C'mon people, it is just one life why to have so much of ego within us? What we are gonna take with us when we get separated from our body? All we gonna take with us is our SOUL! So, why don't we make our soul so pure and peacefully leave our body without any harshness that will be left behind.

I understand we are not born to be in a good books in everyone's life but let's not even be a reason to be in a bad books of others. I know we cannot make everyone happy but let's not even be the reason of their tears as well. 

Let's not put the ego on top of our life's hierarchy!


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